When starting the conversation with her it’s important to kick things off on the right foot. Aim for casual, low-effort conversation and go from there to keep the text conversation going. Jumping straight in with heavy flirting or sexual comments sets the wrong tone and isn’t likely to end well.

  1. A good rule of thumb: compliments are best when they’re given in person and when they’re spontaneous and unplanned.
  2. When you begin to text her, avoid complimenting her appearance. Don’t tell her she’s pretty or beautiful just yet.
  3. Instead, try and get her talking about herself because the more she opens up to you the more rapport you’ll build with her.
  4. Don’t get caught in the endless cycle of back-and-forth text messaging. Have a short chat, make sure she’s invested in the conversation, and then ask her out. The best way to keep her interested in you is to hang out with her to solidify your interest.
  5. Start the conversation casually. Ask her if she has any exciting plans for the weekend. Share something interesting with her about your plans or what you’ve been doing. If she starts asking you questions, the conversation should flow naturally.
  6. Remember that the best way to get her interested in you is to spend time together in person. This is crucial if you’ve met each other online.
  7. So talk a bit over text and then ask about personal meeting.

Let’s take a look at a few examples here. Which do you think are good examples?

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